All aboard with the RNLI!

The 41 Club meeting on Thursday 20 March 2025 kicked off for those members who were thirsty at the Leeds Arms where the beer was so tempting that some members mutinied and stopped for an extra beer or two!

I think this is a lifeboat!
Colin Woodhead

The meeting then moved down to the Lifeboat House and courtesy of former 41 Club member Colin Woodhead members were first treated to a short history of the Scarborough Lifeboat and crew including their many gallant deeds and some unfortunate disasters over the years: they are true heroes of Scarborough. 

There was a most informative guided tour of the lifeboat station and its equipment and the inshore boat was impressive. Unfortunately the offshore boat was moored in the harbour due to an issue with the launching gear.

Who is that man!

We then moved onto the Golden Grid for fish and chips plus of course mushy peas and bread and butter, all very tasty.

Man tries to out stare a vinegar bottle!

Following the meal Chairman Dommi inducted new member James Denton and welcomed back previous member Ian Cocker.

Secretary Mike brought the members attention to several communications received from National on proposed changes to the constitution of National and the upcoming National Conference due to take place at Aviemore. Mike also raised the subject of the Round Table Santas Sleigh which Table are struggling to run as Table member numbers are critically low.

Chairman Dommi thanked members for their donation on behalf of the Scarborough Talking News before closing the meeting with the usual toast to RTBI.

The meeting wound up circa 09.45.

Deputy Lifeboat reporter

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April 2025 Meeting: 69th Annual General Meeting

Gentlemen Chairman Dom’s year draws to a close all too quickly with the holding of the Club’s 69th Annual General Meeting to be held this year as in recent years at the Crescent Hotel on Thursday 17 April 2025. To ensure a prompt start to the meeting at 7.00pm members are invited to gather in the hotel bar for pre-meeting drinks at 6.30pm.

Apologies are due by noon on Friday 11 April 2025.

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Charity Night Update

41 Club members with a good memory will no doubt recall that on 5 December last year Simon and the members of his charity sub-committee organised a very successful charity night at Scarborough Rugby Club raising £3,100 for Chairman Dom’s nominated charities for the year Talking News and SPARKS.

On 5 March Simon and Vice Chair Richard presented each of the 2 charities with their share of the monies raised and in the case of the Talking News charity managed to obtain a free lunch.

Thanks to Martin W (who also received a free lunch) for the following photograph showing Simon and Richard pretending to give Mary Grunwell the Chair of the Talking News charity a cheque for £1,033.

Simon has asked for the following letter of thanks to be published in the 41 Club Newsletter:

41 CLUB CHARITY NIGHT DONATION HAND-OVER

Many thanks to all of you who supported our Charity Night last December and to the sub-committee that made it happen.

On 5th March, Vice-Chairman Richard Kirby and I visited both SPARKS and Talking News – our two designated charities for last year – and presented each with a formal letter from our club, highlighting the sum donated to them. (The actual monies were sent by BACs to them the same day).

The donations were very well received in both cases. The Charity Night raised £2,850 plus former Chairman Charlie kindly donated a further £250 from charity money remaining from his year, with the total being apportioned based on perceived need.

Yours in 41 Club

Simon Lockley

41 Club Charity Night Correspondent

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March 2025 Meeting: Tour of Lifeboat Station

Gentlemen why not explore Scarborough’s Lifeboat Station by attending the next 41 Club meeting – a tour of the lifeboat Station on the Foreshore on Thursday 20 March 2025. For those interested the meeting will start with drinks at the Leeds Arms from 6pm onwards. Otherwise please assemble at the Lifeboat Station from 6.30pm for the tour to be conducted by former 41 Club member Colin Woodhead. The tour will be followed by fish and chips at the Golden Grid.

Apologies are due by noon on Friday 14 March 2025.

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Report on the Chinese Banquet held on 20 February 2025

On Thursday 20 February 2025 32 members, guests (former club member Brian Pidd and his wife Julie) and partners joined Chairman Dom to celebrate the start of the Chinese New Year of the Snake at TOPS Chinese Restaurant on Falsgrave Road.

Several members and partners had availed themselves of the invitation to start the evening across the road at the Tap and Spile to enjoy a pre-dinner drink including one partner who was so anxious not to leave her drink half finished that she brought the glass with her!

Chairman Dom had clearly come straight from work although when he subsequently revealed that he had just spent 10 hours driving a fare to Oxford and back he was probably entitled to be cut some slack regarding his sartorial appearance.

The meal started with the obligatory prawn crackers while orders for main courses and any dietary requirements were taken.

As everyone tucked into their mixed starters the hubbub died down and what had previously sounded like a manic plumber spasmodically hitting a water pipe with a monkey wrench was revealed to be a sound track of Chinese music playing over the restaurant’s sound system.

Who is the mystery diner?

The starters were followed by a main course of one’s own choice which some shared with their partners accompanied by individual bowls of fried rice. It was noticed that no one asked for their cutlery to be replaced with chop sticks no doubt fearful of being called out as poseurs.

While most settled for beer or soft drinks to accompany their meals member John P tried to impress his partner by ordering a bottle of Chateau Falsgrave which when it arrived sported a label with a picture of a wombat and bore the name “Peculiar Mr Pat”. Perusal of the label on the back of the bottle (do bottles have backs? – editor) revealed that Mr Pat was the name given to an orphaned wombat who had had to be saved from being bullied by other wombats and was found a home at the Ballarat Wildlife Park where he was transported about by wheelbarrow because of his enormous size but who had a 50,000 on line following and a dating app!

At the end of the meal Chairman Dom gave a brief speech in which he succeeded in making both our Catering Officer and Treasurer look somewhat anxious when he announced that next year the January and February meetings would be combined to save money before delivering his punch line that the meeting would be known as the Chinese Burns Night!

Cheers!

With partners present there were no reports from the various officers and having welcomed the guests and partners the Chairman closed the meeting with the usual toast to RTBI.

Chinese Burns Night Reporter

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Stop Press News: Chinese Banquet Meeting

Our Catering Officer has provided further details of the Chinese Banquet Meeting with partners to be held at TOPS Chinese restaurant on Falsgrave Road on Thursday 20 February.

For those interested in a pre-dinner drink members are invited to assemble at the Tap and Spile from 6.30pm on-wards to be followed by a 2 course meal at TOPS. There will be a set first course comprising 4 starters followed by a main course of your own choice.

For those members to whom the Tap and Spile and a pint or 2 of Timothy Taylor’s Landlord offers no appeal please assemble at TOPS at 7.30pm to dine at 8.00pm.

Please remember that despite the inclusion of partners this is an opt out meeting with the usual apology arrangements in place. Apologies no later than midday on Friday 14 February and a reminder that members with partners will be charged for 2 meals in the absence of an apology.

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February 2025 Meeting: Chinese Banquet

Gentlemen

Celebrate the Chinese New Year (the Year of the Snake) by attending the next 41 Club meeting – a Chinese Banquet at TOPS Chinese Restaurant on Falsgrave Road on Thursday 20 February 2025.

Please note that although this meeting is with partners the usual apology system will still apply with apologies due by noon on Friday 14 February 2025. In the absence of an apology those members with a partner will be debited with the cost of 2 meals.

Further details to follow

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Report on the Burns Night Supper held on 23 January 2025

The first meeting of the New Year saw the return of an old favourite a Burns Night Supper. As in previous years the Supper was held at Restaurant Nineteen09 at Scarborough TEC on Filey Road. In honour of the Scottish Bard the dress code for the evening was Black Tie or suit and tie.

A respectable 28 members and guests attended the Supper where we were met at the door by students from the college who directed us to the bar area for a pre-dinner drink or two.

Chairman Dom in full flow!

The evening opened with an address by Chairman Dom in “Trumpian” style using his best American accent followed by the Selkirk Grace from Brian Davidson in his best Scottish accent.

The peace was then broken by the skirl of the pipes and the Great Chieftain of the pudding race was paraded around the room on a silver platter carried by a somewhat embarrassed student proceeded by the piper.

The procession over the piper addressed the haggis in time honoured fashion with a faultless rendition of one of Burns most well known poems before cutting it open with his dirk to expose its entrails.

Address to the haggis!

There followed an excellent if heavy meal starting with haggis, neeps and tatties followed by a beef casserole complete with herb dumplings and ending with a cranachan dessert which appeared to have consumed a bottle of whisky all on its own.

The meal was followed with a brief account of Burns life and works from Brian who appeared to be on commission from the Scottish Tourist Board the number of times he recommended visiting the country before ending with a toast to Burns with a further toast this time to the lasses proposed by Chairman Dom who thankfully did not inflict his Scottish accent on us.

There then followed the high point of the evening for some members a whisky tasting hosted by former 41 Club member and genuine Scot Ian Cocker who after starting with a very good Burns joke introduced us to 6 different whiskys starting with a Talisker from the Isle of Skye followed by an Old Poultney from Wick, a Bunnahabhain from Islay, a Jura from where else but Jura and finishing with a Glen Scotia from Campbelltown on the Mull of Kintyre. The only disappointing note was that not all the contents of the 6 bottles had been drunk by the time the evening ended.

Chairman Dom thanked Ian on behalf of some very replete and satisfied members for his informative introduction to the joys of whisky tasting.

Some well satisfied and replete members and Ian!

The meeting closed with the usual toast to RTBI.

Burns Night Supper Reporter

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Round Table Sleigh 2024

Secretary Mike reports that starting in 1985 the Round Table’s Sleigh has toured the streets of Scarborough and surrounding districts for 10 nights every December except when this was not possible because of the nationwide lockdowns in the time of Covid.


The sleigh has for many years been used to collect Santa from the harbour and deliver him to Boyes Store in Queen Street and to take him to visit the primary school in Barrowcliff to give out presents to the school children donated by the school authorities.


The sleigh has been rebuilt and continually maintained initially by members of Round Table and more recently by members of 41 Club who also paid for the last rebuild 5 years ago.


Sadly this year due primarily to the dwindling number of members in Round Table it was decided to operate for 5 nights only but still collect Santa from the harbour and visit Barrowcliffe school. Despite the reduction in the number of nights the sleigh was operational even in these high cost of living times Santa’s Elves still managed to collect £2,151. A record result!

Santa distributes presents to the children of Barrowcliffe School


Thanks to those members of 41 Club who gave up their evenings to enable the sleigh to operate and as a result had the chance to witness the happy smiling faces on the hundreds of children who came out to see Santa many of whom handed him their Christmas list of presents they hoped to receive.

What makes it all worthwhile!


Like all successful events the sleigh requires a lot of hard work behind the scenes the majority of which has been done for the past 25 years by our own Ben Kitto (or Rudolf as he is known to Santa).


Merry Christmas
Santa

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Report on Charity Night at Scarborough Rugby Club on 5 December 2024

At about 11.30pm on Friday 5 December all the sleepless nights spent worrying about food allergies, the meetings, the WhatsApp messages, the emails and the last minute telephone calls had paid off and our Membership Officer Simon was finally able to relax and savour the success of the 41 Club Charity Night organised by him and his Charity Night Committee at Scarborough Rugby Club.

Although the evening was wet and very windy over 100 members and guests attended the event and were welcomed by a grand display of Christmas lights courtesy of the Rugby Club and 2 doormen pretending to be tough to prevent gate crashers.

After some pre-dinner drinks the evening proper started with a health and safety announcement from Simon ably assisted by 2 members of his “cabin crew” to point out the emergency exits and several jokes which were met with groans of anguish not laughter.

Club members and their guests

With Vice Chairman Richard acting as compere for the evening after a brief welcome from Chairman Dom he then introduced representatives from his 2 nominated charities for the year Scarborough Talking News and SPARKS to describe the services offered by their respective charities. In a very family affair Dom’s mother Mary spoke on behalf of Scarborough Talking News and his wife Nicky on behalf of SPARKS both of whom received a warm round of applause for their efforts.

At last the food was served. Rumour has it that it was the same menu as last year but whatever there were no grounds to criticise the offering save towards the end when the kitchen ran out of cheesecake for the dessert course.

While dessert was served entertainment was provided by Annie & King described on their Facebook page as “a crossover folk country upbeat” duo from Scarborough who stuck to their task well despite the distractions of guests eating their desserts and after dinner conversation.

Annie & King in action
A winner!

With the audience well sated with both food and drink the delicate operation of prizing money out of wallets and handbags for the benefit of the 2 charities commenced. In an innovation the raffle ticket sellers had the use of a Sum Up machine to catch those who claimed to have no cash on them! Steve Slade did the honours of managing the raffle draw which did seem to favour some tables over others! It was also suspicious that many of the winners were 41 Club members but hey your correspondent is not bitter at having failed to win anything despite an enormous outlay!

Another winner!

Then it was on to the auction with Richard acting as auctioneer. Clearly a man who missed out on his preferred vocation in life and one who has watched too many American court room dramas or just likes making a noise with a gavel. Nonetheless he did a sterling job of extracting a large amount of money from his audience despite some very shady lots on offer including naked clay pigeon shooting and having a hair cut while eating a box of chocolates.

The evening ended with a disco from Magic Mike which allowed some of the guests to show their moves on the dance floor.

Although the final figures have still to be calculated the amount raised for the 2 charities is believed to be in the region of a very impressive £2,700.

Congratulations to Simon and his team for a highly successful Charity Night and thanks to all those who donated prizes for the raffle and auction whose generosity is much appreciated.

41 Club Charity Correspondent

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